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Creating Confidence for Success                                         Return to Self Study Page
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Do you know what one trait the most successful people in the world all have in common?  The one thing they share in common is confidence.  You can see it in everything they do.  They tread with sure steps.  They reach for the sky on  a regular basis.  They become a success because they believe they are a success, and so success is naturally drawn to them without fail. 
 
We all want to be successful, but not all of us possess that level of confidence inherent in our soul.  In fact, most of us try new things with at least some level of trepidation and sometimes even fear.  Even some of the most self-confident people you've ever meet might not always have been so.  Confidence is not something that can be artificially manufactured or bought.  It exudes from within and affects everything about a person from their attitude all the way to the decisions they make both personally and professionally.  Confident people know they will be successful in the ventures they pursue, and with that power of mind they boldly step forth and achieve great things.  Even when they are not certain of the outcome they still proceed with confidence, and more often than not, do create success.  Each success gives them even more confidence to build on future successes.
 

So what do we do if we were not born with that level of confidence or if our confidence has somehow been broken down?  How do we go about obtaining confidence in ourselves and our ability to achieve anything we set our minds to?  We have to build it - one success at a time.  We have to take it into our own hands, hearts and minds and just start building.


You can start right now from this very moment.  Start thinking about what you have been able to achieve since you woke up today?  What else can you decide to accomplish for this day?  It may even seem like something small but if it can be classified as a success for you and something you can accomplish in your day, do it and then celebrate that success.  As you move throughout your day, make note of all your successes whenever they occur.  Take pride in any job well done.  See all of your abilities and learn to appreciate each and every one of them. 

You can even think back over your past and compile a list of all the successes you have made in your life up until this point.  As you see the list accumulate before your eyes, you will begin to swell with pride as you realize all the things you have been able to do in your life.  Keep doing that!  As you carry with you the remembrance of all you have been able to accomplish, revel in those accomplishments.  That's when your confidence will be building, and as it builds you will find the courage to take on bigger and bigger challenges.  Relish the glory of each success and use it as your stepping stone.  That's how all confidence is built - once success at a time.


 


 
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